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Writing is
something very important to me, yet it often falls to the bottom of my
list. Sound familiar?
While I have learned that lists keep me organized and help me get
things done, sometimes I let them overwhelm me. When that happens, I often
refer back to a book I read some years ago: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal
Change by Stephen R. Covey. For me, the most useful thing
Covey does in this book is to distinguish between what’s important—those things that contribute to one’s long-term goals (the big rocks in the jar, he calls them)—and
what is urgent—matters that seem to
require immediate action but end up
being mere distractions (those pebbles that could really fit in anywhere). At times these two categories converge, but as he
points out, most often urgent matters are
not the same as important ones.
Think
about this when you feel inundated with things to do, and you put aside your
goal to write. Then make some decisions about what’s really important in your
life. If writing is one of those things, it does not have to be urgent, but it
does belong in that important category, which demands that you make some space
for it. And it should go on your list first. After all, it's a big rock.
What have you found useful for moving writing to the top of your list? Do you have a tip to share?
Portions of this blog entry first appeared in my
column, “Your Space—Taking Care of You,” in the June 2010 issue of AJN eNews.
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